It is easy to say ‘Suri’. This is just a word that has two members of the word and you can sneeze it quickly, but it is very difficult to say to the heart.
According to a research platform learning platform, British people use the word ‘Suri’ in 15 different ways, of which only one method means real insult.
Apparently we say ‘Suri’ many times that we no longer remember its true meaning. There are some ways from which we misuse ‘Suri’.
Ask someone to move out of the way, someone to repeat his words, sympathize, express uncertainty, to disagree, to joking, and if you are a British citizen, probably say before every sentence.
A cultural and linguistic expert associated with Babel, Nevel Wolf, says that the word ‘Suri’ in British English has gone far ahead with its original purpose. ,
According to his research, we speak an average of nine times ‘Suri’ daily. “It has now become a source of help in a social facility and everyday contacts.”
This shows that British people prefer to avoid struggle through traditional politics.
We work patiently and continue matters, which is a feature of British nature.
According to Wolf, ‘In a society where direct things are considered bad and individual and emotional boundaries are taken care of,’ Suri ‘can also relieve minor stress’.
The problem is that due to the useless use of this term, its true meaning is now decreasing and we are unaware of how to really apologize for real insults.
If we call it unconscious, will this word mean any meaning? And why do most of us apologize for saying hollow sentences?
For example, if you feel bad, there is hardly any phrase more than Suri.
These are questions that Margery Engel and Susan Macarthi raised in their books ‘Getting to Suri: The Art of Epology at the Work and Eight Ghar’.
It states that in personal and professional life we often apologize so badly and how this habit spoils our relationship with others and ourselves.
His main point is associated with the growing trend of major personalities.
Namely, the statements made by social media or interpreters, which are only aimed at protecting the reputation of a celebrity and sometimes rejecting allegations.
We have seen this at the public level many times. Many individuals have issued such statements from Drwar Berry Moore and Leena Deenam to Ashton Kach and Melus.
In addition, there is an endless list of politicians in the UK, who set the worst examples in saying ‘Suri’.
Often these forgiveness are long and expert relationship strategies. Sometimes, they are so ineffective that they become fun.
According to the angle, ‘The real focus in these forgiveness is for the person who apologized and not to the person who is being apologized.
“It is rare that they clearly accept their mistake, which reflects an forgiveness and attempt to avoid responsibility.”
This attitude is also making us accustomed to forgiveness where the blame is trying to put on others.
According to the finger, ‘Our brain forces us to see ourselves as a hero. When we make a mistake, it makes us ignorant, ‘I am a good person but I have done bad things.’
To eliminate this contradiction, we consider our mistake as modest and consider another person’s response to exaggeration. ,
A phrases like ‘if you feel bad’ with such Buddhist apology. Angle says that we want to avoid responsibility by adopting a vague language and a clear attitude.
For some people, it is difficult to apologize because in the environment where they grow, the mistake of mistake is considered unsafe.
Psychologist Dr. According to Jeena Vyas Lee, ‘Apologies threatens our identity and it insults or fear forces us to take a defensive attitude.’
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The balance and reference of power can also make the condition more complex. The way of apologizing to the boss or a fellow worker is completely different in the way parents or friends apologize.
According to Vyas Lee, if it adds specific precautions to the British civilization, it is not surprising to ask for a false waiver. ,
Accepting a weak apology can be extremely disappointing. It not only lightens the problem for which apology was sought, but also creates a sense of separation in the person who is in trouble.
For example, the other party does not understand why he was hurt or unhappy.
How should there be an effective and true apology? According to recent research, prolonged and careful forgiveness is more effective because it makes the listener feel the severity of forgiveness.
Dr. Vyas Lee says that ‘effective apology contains three things, namely to explain wrong behavior, accept its effect and improve attitude.
For example, I spoke in a harsh tone. I think it was painful. Next time I will be careful. ,
Human relationship expert Jema Logan says that forgiveness should not be limited to a moment. ‘A few days later, this person is asking the situation and saying that’ I am still easy to say ‘Suri’, showing my seriousness.
The fact is that being an adult and conscious human being, there is no justification for weak apology. But if you have done this in the past, then at least now you know how apologized.