‘Did you start aging, hobbies have become young! Have you seen a sarcastic? Is this the age of marriage? When there was time, not, will dust be better? ,
‘Hey this age is comfort, what do you go to walk on the mountains? If you fall somewhere, bones will not be together. ,
There are many phrases that you have heard from your close relationships or people. Especially those who are from the family and are familiar with your real age will make you feel that you are now forty or more, so you have no right to live.
I believe it is a bit different. I think your real life begins only after the age of forty, because before your life is not only under the control of others, but most of the decisions you have made are based on preferences, emotions or preferences of others. But it is also true that forty years are as dangerous as ten years of age.
Whenever a boy or girl steps at the door of the youth, it contains energy, enthusiasm, anger, sentimentality, madness. Similarly, as he entered the age of forty, most people, especially people from Asian countries, are worried about what he has done in his life that he may be happy to be proud or remembering.
Most people suffer from despair, sadness, loneliness and failure. Perhaps this feeling will not be so effective if its feeling does not give us to the people around us, and these things sometimes turn into social ejaculation, which causes those who have come to free themselves at the age of forty years to free themselves that they have lost a part of their age.
According to the society, at the age of forty, you just have to think that the years you are living in the years is a bonus. You can die at any time, so start the process of self -assessment and count failures.
On this subject, I was once a psychologist Dr. I got an opportunity to talk to Iqbal Afridi. According to him, the man is actually mature at the age of forty. He quoted saying that when Allah blessed the holy Prophet, he was forty years old at that time, because at this age, human knowledge, knowledge has increased more than ever. At this age we have time in which we can spend time with us.
Dr. According to Iqbal, it is important for men and women to try to pay special attention to your health, gold waking up, exercise, medicine, meditation till the age of forty years. Unnecessary things, conflicts and debates, which are likely to affect their mental health, stay away from it and make every effort to keep yourself busy.
This opinion is of a psychologist, but my personal observation has been that no matter how successful you are in your career or in any field, people will find lack of your life, which they can tell you that since it is lacking, you are nothing.
Like many couples, who have got a lot of time, but they have no children, they are told that they are losing their time, if the time is over, they will regret it.
Once in my constituency, a woman told me a story that she had gone to a loved one a few months ago, and she came there. A distant relative, whom she was meeting a few fifteen years later, addressed the gathering and said, “When will you participate in the wedding?”
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In response, the woman said that when the time comes, it will happen. The guest woman made fun of this and said that it was forty years old, she is still waiting for time, surprised. My friend said that one of the phrases put his confidence in seconds and he could not even tell the woman that there was a marriage, but in her life, she has found a lot, which is why her life is much better than other women.
Similarly, another friend of mine told me that he was now understood at the age of 44 that as a man, he was always told and told that men had no choice but black, brown, brown in clothes and shoes. Now that he made new friends and started traveling and trekking with him, which was a new experience for him, his friendship was also made with colors.
Now that they are starting to choose colors from traditional shoes and shirts, they are getting to hear from their bags and people around them what is the reason for this change. What new hobbies are you at this age? Is it a personal choice or is there any other reason behind this change? According to him, he is not only seen with doubt, but he has also heard that he has the idea of becoming young in this part of age.
The background of all these stories is the idea that thrives from generation to generation. In our society, in most families, daughters have to hear that it is not right to decorate virgin girls, such girls do not look good.
Similarly, sons are felt at an early age that their responsibility is to earn a lot and is with the salary they get to meet the needs of the family. If a boy wants to fulfill his hobby with some part of his earnings, such as clothes, watches, perfumes, expensive tie, sports, then he also hears that he is useless and himself. Thinking the same, his whole life hinders these people to think about himself and make decisions.
In this part of age, when you have stumbled the world, I have recognized people after suffering various behaviors, become a human who starts thinking what works, which can lead to my mental peace (file photos/ envot)
My personal experience has been the same, I heard from my own age reporter, who always appeared for makeup during reporting, a few years after coming to the media, I heard that at least one dark lipstick or liner would look good on camera.
When I told her that in my family, girls do not like to be a girl and that’s why I do not know how the liner is, her mouth was surprised. I have passed a few years using a light makeup, including the illiner and lipstick, and then I have heard from someone to someone that now, when the age is growing, Ms. I want to wear bright killers and think of makeup so that I can feel less.
But the fact is that I started living my life at the age of forty years. I got an opportunity to understand which color I like and which color I like. Which I have been ignoring many years under various old thinking.
The age of forty years is the life of an independent person, because we have the concept of an independent woman here by society. If a woman lives alone, wears well, by bringing her deal, most of the work that is often required by men, she is given rebels, self -stild and mother -in -to.
But I think in this part of age, when you have stumbled the world, I have recognized people after suffering various behaviors, have become a human being who starts thinking what they are, which can lead to my mental peace.
Those work can be anything. For some people, the world can walk alone, spend time alone, can register photography, fashion, degree, business, marriage, new friends to talk or write.
But the same thing, according to the society, at the age of forty, you just have to think that the years you are living in is a bonus. You can die at any time, so start the process of self -assessment and count failures.
These standards have been created by the society since the beginning, which is ready to create a force around us, which can tell us what is left for us and what not. This group tells you that now you are limited.
If you are getting married late, the results cannot be good, this decision should have been made long ago. If a woman is married at a mature age, the same society comments in photo sessions with their wedding couple, with the most phrase one of the largest mare.
According to the society, at the age of forty, you just have to think that the years you are living in the years is a bonus. You can die at any time, so start the process of self -assessment and count failures.
Similarly, if you intend to study at this age, you are also convinced that it is no use because if this degree was taken fifteen years ago, it can work in your career. Similarly, if you are spending money on happy lubricants, serials, or other hobbies, just stop your hands because now you are moving towards old age, this money can work in your health or isolation of old age.
If it is spoken in clear words, now in the eyes of the society, because your age has reached forty, you should leave and think about what you have lost in reaching this age.
What do we think about the opposite, as you wanted someone, but he left you in this part of age, when you were in dire need, should the rest of your life be spent in this sadness and deadly? You can trust and love again because the reliability of this age will not be based on emotionalism.
You roam around the world and see it from a new angle, fulfill your hobby that you are not allowed to meet in the past due to any obstruction or problems because it is the best time to meet them.
Wear it well, not for people, do all this to keep yourself happy. Spend time with you and think that you are lucky to be lucky to understand and learn what you really are, whether you can feel good because after forty years you have lived a new life, which you have the opportunity to do that you have ever been for your desires or senses.
Note: This writing is based on a blogger’s personal view, which does not agree with independent Urdu.
