While most families end for the day at 8 p.m., a mother of Clovis, in New Mexico, is just beginning.
Stay at home mom Emily Boazman (@EmilyBoazman) posted what their “night family” looks like a viral clip On Tiktok – and he was amazed.
Boazman, 35, who shares the 9 -year -old girl crew, the 7 -year -old girl, Knox and her 3 -year -old son, Keen with her husband Jake, 44, a prosecutor, usually launches the family night routine around 8:45 p.m., after returning from an evening walk.
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“I am the youngest of four girls and in our life, our The family was nightlifting“Said Boazman Nowsweek. “My parents were not very strict about bedtime … [and] I remember firing frequently with my sister. To date, my whole family is standing very late. “”
Back home just before 9 p.m., Boazman’s husband, Jake, returns from basketball and the preparation of the dinner begins shortly after.
At 9:26 p.m., The family sits down to eat. There is a cleaning after dinner, a small basketball point of view, a hair package for girls, and finally a bath and bedtime routine This extends up to almost 12 hours
Once the children have broken down, Emily and Jake relax up to almost 1 a.m., but despite the late nights, Emily said that her children operated very well during the day.
During the week, children are educated at home and the family wakes up at 10:30 am
One typical morning, Emily will do household work, make lunch for the family and read children while Jake is in the court.
“They wake up very well,” said Emily Nowsweek. “I must tell them to get up several times, but once they are out of bed, they are perfect for the rest of the day.”
“I fight more than them,” she said. “We usually sleep until 9:30 a.m. to 10:30 a.m., but we relax in bed after waking up and just talking and snuggling up.”
His sisters and their families also live like the Boazman, which means that cousins can spend time in the evening “without anyone cares about hours of bedtime,” added Emily.
Emily and Jake explained that routine is working for their family lifestyle and community.
“Everyone around us has this same schedule and it works just to make plans later,” Emily told Nowsweek. “Our church friends go to bed mainly late, our activities – like pickleball and volleyball – are still scheduled for late.”
However, after sharing this overview of their family’s life on TiktokEmily said Nowsweek She was shocked by the online reaction, especially when she shared the same clip on Facebook And Instagram.
“I had a ton of viral videos, [and] I know they will always bring crazy comments, but it was another level, “she said.
“I received DMS of people saying that we were abusive parents, that I was a narcissist for forcing my children to stay awake,” said Emily.
“Not the kid who crashes at 11:46 and hmm, I wonder why,” wrote a Facebook user.
Another said that Boazman’s night routine was “not normal” and that children had to bed around 9 pm “spoil their body of natural sleep rhythms”.
“I have never forced them – my children can go to bed when they wish,” said Emily Nowsweek. “If it’s earlier, and when I say it’s bedtime, they have to fall asleep. They can’t stand up later than me Or their father, “she said.
While Emily admitted that their lifestyle was different from most, she is surprised by the depth of people.
“I understand that people are shocked, but that they would care enough when another family they have no link, sets … Wow,” she said. “So crazy.”
